Safe to lead

What We Cover

We use a 4-part structure adapted from our real-world self-defense seminars. It’s designed to help people stay calm under threat so they can make informed, confident decisions that allow them to move safely away from danger, and it works just as well when the threat isn’t physical, but emotional or psychological.

1. Know Yourself

You’ll begin to truly understand yourself. You’ll recognise how stress shows up in your body when you’re under pressure, how it unconsciously drives your decisions and the negative patterns that keep repeating in your life.

2. Know Your Threats

You’ll identify the exact situations and dynamics that threaten your sense of safety. Once you know what triggers your reactions, you can start to change how you respond.

3. Situational Awareness

You’ll become more present, even when your heart’s racing or the room gets quiet. You’ll discover how to notice what’s actually happening around you, you’ll read the emotional landscape of situation, your surroundings and of how you feel in real time.

4. Respond

You’ll get tools to help you speak, act and lead with calm authority instead of reacting with emotion. You’ll lead conversations, decisions, and conflict with clarity

Who This Is For

This is for people who:

• Lead others at work, at home, in their business, or in their community
• Often feel frustrated with how they react when things get tense
• Walk away from situations thinking, “Why didn’t I just say what I meant?”
• Apologise more than they need to, avoid difficult conversations, or come on too strong when they feel unsure
• Want practical tools to help them stay calm and in control real situations, not just more information

What You’ll Walk Away With

By the end of the 6 weeks, you’ll be able to:

• Notice the exact moment your body starts reacting, so you can take control before it spirals
• Stop defaulting to old habits like shutting down, fixing, justifying, or avoiding
• Speak more clearly in situations where you’d usually freeze, apologise unnecessarily, or go off track
• Respond when someone is upset or critical without becoming defensive or feeling the need to justify yourself
• Handle conflict, feedback, and pressure without replaying the conversation in your head for hours afterwards
• Lead conversations that feel uncomfortable with clarity, confidence, and a sense of closure
• If you’re a coach or consultant: your business will become easier as sales conversations flow more naturally, you stop second-guessing your offers, and potential clients trust you more because they can feel you’re calm, controlled and clear in how you communicate

You can’t control what other people say or do, and you can’t predict every situation you’ll face. But you can control how you respond. This program gives you the tools to feel steady and in command, so no matter what happens around you, you know how to handle it decisively and with authority.

• 6 live sessions – once a week, practical and focused with each one building upon the previous
• Clear, actionable tools – no theory, just what you’ll use immediately
• A private Facebook group – space for reflection, support, and questions between calls
• Weekly focus on how to apply the work to real-life challenges like client boundaries, parenting, feedback at work, and making decisions you usually avoid

Program Details

• Start date: Monday, 14 July
• Length: 6 weeks
• Live calls: 60 minutes weekly (recorded if you can’t attend)
• Price:
  • $97 until 30 June
  • $197 from 1 July

This is the beta round, live, hands-on, and priced lower than future versions. You’ll have access to personal guidance and a group working towards the same goals.

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